Sorry we've been inactive for so long. Hard to accept things getting progressively worser each year with no let up. 2003 takes the biscuit! Excuse us as we slowly come out of depression. Anyways, we decided to try our own eggs one last time on a surrogate before going the straight route. We've advertised on so many boards and such, even in an indian newspaper. Though we prefer a UK surrogate. ANY NON-ASIAN (white/black/yellow/green) WILL BE MOST WELCOME. As for our ex-surrogate, (again nothing will be revealed as to who he/she was) we know full well that somebody has to equally suffer hardships to go the surro route. The million to one chance. They don't come without their problems for which we was offering to help out on as we have experience in immigration etc. We overlooked the two failed marriages etc. There was so many issues that we could halt the proceedings with but did not get the opportunity as before we even decided either way they pulled out on us twice. Pleading didn't help. Met twice and dumped twice speaks for itself. Partners have to be revealed from the outset. Not from left-field. And garage forecourt diplomacy regarding money, cash upfront, money kept in a third person account not of our choosing and double the going rate with expenses on top just begged belief that we were talking with a fellow asian in a close community who should realise that there's a stigma attached to any childless indian couple. Have to say we liked our surrogate and her baby alot, but she had no say in matters whatsoever. None at all. Very odd considering she has to bear the burden! Circumstances around her have led her to this path I'm sure against her better judgement. What's missing is the heart, feelings and the joy in helping a childless couple. If the above is still not a reason to leave, there's the 'mother' of all reasons why we still would not have gone ahead which you will just have to trust us. To any non believers out there - our whole site must be a lie then? In a nutshell, we were jolly well frightened off. We find ourselves quite fortunate to not have gone ahead or allowed ahead. We wouldn't wish our experiences on our worst enemies. To have the heart torn from you is a heavy price to pay. All too common in the world of surrogacy and we hope nobody is put off by our story as there are successes to be told, oneday hopefully from this very board. It's tail between our legs time and we must advertise again. -------------- the problem lies with u bobby because u think u r right and all u want is people to feel sorry for u get of your arse and get a job and a life u r totaly wrong about us so remove those stupid comments from raj --------------- hi nicky bobby u should move on with your life and both should work than feel sorry for your selfs i do have a heart and a child to support as well than do thangs for free u should go to india may be some one will feel sorry for u and help u free ------------------------- Hi, thanks for reading our boards. We accepted your 15,000 demand. Now if you think that is considered "free" then you are mistaken. Besides, we did not leave you. Can you remember you dumping us twice? As for getting on with our lifes, we're going to that meeting on May 17 about surrogacy with the rest of the other "no-lifers". These are nice people, their problems are not self inflicted or derserving. Their situation is totally unfair and are a sincere bunch who know the true meaning of life and happiness. These are the ones we will mingle with and discuss "life" with. India is an option as we continually get calls from donors etc. But amrit, it's not ever free nor easy. We still pray and we will fork out whatever it takes to the right individual whom we feel is genuine. So money is no object. You're lovely and so is the baby. We hope you would return the same compliments to us and wish us well like your lovely cousin 'sweetie'. And I'm sure you know what scared us off. There is no direct link to any named person in our boards. Nor was it mentioned any of the comments came from any individual named or otherwise. Please tell us which words you feel were not truthful. Please refrain from using bad language. Give our love to Rohan ---------------------------------------------------------------------- (After the kind response from our posts above) Oh dear, we know where this one is going. Degenerating into soap opera levels. Though compelling to some we have to end this in order for the majority to continue with decent honest conversation. Alternative is to have a password entry to this board. Childlike attitude sums it all up really. Better to try and placate. So obviously we made it all up and we apologise amrit. Our mistake. We must have got you confused with other dealings we've had with another couple. So we misheard and misinterpreted and had labeled you tragically wrong with another couple. Sorry. Forgive us. Hope all is well at your end. This site is always truthful and honest and will remain so. But in this instance, we have to apologise for the above statements. We're peacekeepers at best. And have to rise above the pettyness even at our own cost. Dumped twice is all we can get away with I guess. Visitors can make up their own minds and hope that they can read between the lines here. This is a personal website accounting for our (obviously fake) story. Replicated on other boards aswell. The purpose of this site is to educate people about what can happen, will happen and did happen in the world of surrogacy. This is our side of the story and as long as there's some semblence of decency and no names mentioned we cay say what we like. There is no law against that. We don't have control elsewhere thats the nature of the web that anyone can use our story. Amrit, you can always hit the off switch button, nobody is insisting you visit. Nobody knew it was you. You should not have revealed your name nor do you own this site. After all we had that much respect for you by keeping names out. Nevertheless, though not obliged to, you got the retraction for the sake of peace so now let this board continue with decent conversation and facts and we wont hear anymore of you please, except for your lovely cousin of course. Good bye. Incase you misread the misread, here it is again: we apologise amrit. Our mistake. We must have got you confused with other dealings we've had with another couple. So we misheard and misinterpreted and had labeled you tragically wrong with another couple. Sorry. Forgive us. Hope all is well at your end. Give our love to Rohan. Once more : we apologise amrit. Our mistake. We must have got you confused with other dealings we've had with another couple. So we misheard and misinterpreted and had labeled you tragically wrong with another couple. Sorry. Forgive us. Hope all is well at your end. Give our love to Rohan. Normal service will hopefully resume now. We still think highly of you amrit. Once again good bye. Further posts from you will sadly be automatically deleted. (except from your sister 'sweety' who still emails :))

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